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    Opening the Heart through Gratitude

    Published by Brian Mitchell-Walker
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    When I witness the many ways either I am struggling, or any part of creation is struggling, it is hard to feel anything.  In the past I have been great at numbing my heart by focusing on all that has to be done. But now I recognize that when I shut down the difficult feelings, I also shut down the joy within me.  

    Gratitude is a pathway that helps me open my heart.  This is not as simple as writing a list of things for which I am grateful. It’s important to notice the effects of gratitude on my heart.  By placing a hand on my chest to draw attention there, I tune into my heart sensations:

    •  Is there a feeling of constriction or expansion?  
    • What is the speed of my heartbeat?  
    • What other sensations come into awareness?  

    I then think of something for which I am grateful (a beautiful sunset, an interaction with a close friend, a playful puppy) and notice any shifts in sensation.  With these shifts I notice a sense of connection to that for which I am grateful, a recognition that I am not alone in this world. This opens me to an understanding that we are all connected and yet separate.  

    I also recognize that, in the time it took me to experience this moment, there are others who experienced a moment of trauma.   As I acknowledge this, I notice my heart feeling a variety of emotions—truly all emotions—the pain and joy of the world.  It is as if my heart is opening to hold all this, while at the same time having a sense of being held—an acceptance that in this moment all these feelings are true.  

    I invite you to notice your heart space.  Let gratitude be one way to open your heart to experience connection and acceptance of all there is.  

    Brian Mitchell-Walker
    Brian Mitchell-Walker

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